mushaden wrote:I want to help but I don't really know what to say. I think just finding a group of people to talk with in person will help. You've got to quit lookin at her facebook though... hopefully you can take some precautions against it and also find some distractions for yourself. advice sucks though... you really do need to talk it out
Yea and i've talked this pretty much through as much as i possibly can in this time, i even took some therapy (5 free sessions paid by my workplace yesss).
I'm not sure if i really have anything new to say about this stuff, at least at the moment. The conversation at the other thread just spread so much that i thought it would be a good idea to spawn a dedicated thread, as there are also very serious stuff happening to people and it kinda makes me feel a bit dorky to complain about some girl over someones fatal disease (even tough heartaches can be very very very devastating too).
So please do share if some one broke your heart or cpu and tell us how are you going on.
Ray Van Mechelen wrote:hunt for other girls, that's what I always do, it doesn't really help but at least, it's fun.
And remember:
And yes, that's what i've been striving to do, but it's the effin' weekends after 2, and this time 3 days of boozing and circling around parties ad bars and places that make me feel lonely and think all day about my ex.
I'ts hard to pick up anyone because as i said, ive become really picky after her, but maybe i just need to temporarily lower my standrds and just hunt for some casual something. (i really dont know if that's a good idea either..)
And ytz, no, it wasn't facebook, it was her inability to love anyone continuously for more that few months, probably rooting down to her bipolar disorder.
And i'm sorry if i'm repeating myself. It's not intended.
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