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in your case?

"Opinions are a private matter. The public has an interest only in judgments.

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http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2364/2277599832_f37c6c62aa.jpg?v=1203440707

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the larger your record collection the smaller your penis smile

hahahaha

"Opinions are a private matter. The public has an interest only in judgments.

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you got that right!  i only own one record big_smile

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you only have one record... and it's by The Carpenters???

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dont hate smile

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actually i like 'calling all occupants of interplanetary craft'

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'calling all occupants...'
classics!
i found myself listen to carpenter too many times on the last few months.

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mai wrote:

the larger your record collection the smaller your penis smile

hahahaha

no, the lesser got laid smile

Somebody was trying to tell me that CDs are better than vinyl because they don't have any surface noise. I said, "Listen, mate, -life- has surface noise..." [John Peel]

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mai wrote:

the larger your record collection the smaller your penis smile

hahahaha

hehe, jackmaster dikkkk

Somebody was trying to tell me that CDs are better than vinyl because they don't have any surface noise. I said, "Listen, mate, -life- has surface noise..." [John Peel]

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the carpenters rule

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if youre not getting your heart broken, youre not doing it right

vs

"you need first hand experience in secondhand love"

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ahhh here it is smile

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I'm fed up of relationship. It is "better to be alone than in a bad company".

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Love for me is about trust and support and sharing core values, rather than passion and romance.  But in saying that I just can't be arsed playing (and am scared by) the whole dating game/getting to know you experience in order to be in a relationship in the first place.  I once tried the guardian newspaper online dating site - but I just felt like a pretentious prick and had nothing to say and trying to get women to respond to my interest/engage in a conversation was like trying to get blood out of a stone.

Out of the blue yesterday a pretty lady at work walked up to me and handed me a folded up letter with my name and 'private' written on it and asked me to read it before rushing away.  It said that she really liked me and wanted to get to know me better. She left her phone number and awaits me call/text. 

I work in a hospice for christ's sake and she was visiting an inpatient who is dying there on his birthday. Therefore she is either a friend or a relative of his.  I would have thought she would been more consumed/concerned by his ill health surely?

Shame it had to happen at work as I don't mix work and pleasure.

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qG7CmRe5Yh0[/youtube]

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@japster

maybe you try bending the rules just the once? sex is always better when there is someone else involved.

similar thing happened to me years ago in the bank. i went in to make a withdrawl and she handed me a note asking for a deposit!

keep hackney crap

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i've only fallen in love when i'm dissatisfied with life, its such an easy way out of anxiety. "well at least i got my girl".

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karl wrote:

i've only fallen in love when i'm dissatisfied with life, its such an easy way out of anxiety. "well at least i got my girl".

yeah, kind of a 'cheap thrill' if you will

well, if you're not careful it won't turn out cheap at all..

hoi!

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@mademoiselle - sounds like youve been hurt. its good to be alone to reflect but ultimately we grow as humans by sharing with eachother - pains and pleasures.
@ mai - the more time caressing the records the less time caressing self/others
@jap the lad - there are no rules really, and it can happen in the strangest way, at the strangest time and with the strangest people..take a chance.

mind you, wtf would i know, didnt exactly succeed ;/

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What I dislike most in relationships is the fact that ultimately you want to change the other one and not accept him / her they way s/he is ...

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Recently I found myself replaced. I now live on my own. Couple of weeks back I went to a friend's exhibition and met a wonderful woman who somehow had the ability to take what little confidence in myself I did have and amplify it back up to normal levels.

It would have been very easy for me to cut myself off from people and not to explore that wonderful moment between getting to know someone and the bit where it all fucks up...

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TxzGzl6ROIo[/youtube]

Marc Almond - Beautiful Brutal Thing:

Love
Is a beautiful brutal thing
It sings at night like the wind
It stings your heart like a whip
It rocks your soul like a ship
And love
Is a beautiful brutal thing
It can mean everything
Or nothing at all
Such a feeling can make you tall
Or as small as a distant star
It's the cushion to
break your fall
Love triumphs over all

Love
Is a beautiful brutal thing
And it gives the sweetest of pain
It wakes your spirit and then
You feel like living again

And rain
Falls when you think the Sun
Has just begun
To shine above
And love
Is mysterious as it's old
It's the secret you've never told
It's the tears of sorrow and joy
For that girl or that boy
It makes you feel
It makes you feel
It makes you feel
A beautiful brutal thing

And love
Is a beautiful brutal thing
It can mean everything
Or nothing at all
Such a feeling could
make you tall
Or as small as a distant star
It's the cushion to
break your fall
Love triumphs over all
It makes you feel
A beautiful brutal thing

"Are you loving?"

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man you guys are breaking ma heart here!

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[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRsNtNlXNLs[/youtube]

now fucking cheer up everyone please, the winter is hard enough for ex-mental patients like me to get through as it is!

however much love makes you feel like shit, you know you're always gonna go back for more so let's stop sounding like a broken Radiohead record here... it's human nature to fall in love. there's nothing you can do about it, so accept it and have what fun you can with it before you can't anymore. it really is as simple as that.

I've had my heart broken 1000 times, and yes it's not easy. but just make like Conan and take the pain! love may have its flaws but it's a lot better than hate.