the broken hearts club (Page 4 of 10)

wtf my last post was cut from the start 

I meant to say that i don't like this "man up" stuff.
I know that this happens to everyone, including our ex's, but wtf, it doesn't make this stuff any more insignificant.

And i do all the above, i'm constantly doing stuff i enjoy and mingling with girls, but that still doesn't cure anything necessarily cure anything. And i very strongly disagree that new girls will make these feelings better. It makes me feel good on the surface of course, but it doesn't correct anything.

Like i said, losing someone very important from your life, doesn't get corrected by fucking or dating.

Well, i'm trying.
I just severly doubt that it will do anything to my incapability of enjoying life while alone.

Like said, time heals all wounds, believe me. It doesn't help to argue if the wound is still fresh. Each has to find his/her own way out of this I think: there's no prescription! Call it life, daily struggle or UFO whatever.

We all have our scars in the end. The wound will heal but the scar will always be there.

or as the americans say:

Women, cant live with them ... pass the beer nuts

lol!

was it a milf? If so: cool! I've dated a milf for about 3 weeks, a month ago. Dunno, I liked it 

i dreamt i was in a love with an imaginary girl

i still miss her

would be nice to have ctrl+z in real life

Also fuck all the man up stuff - without the heartache, without showing one's emotions there wouldn't be tracks like this:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6exyKDbcGIs[/youtube]

The problem is that there is another dude around - more likely has been around for quite some time now. But my ex has been behaving strangely (anything new, you ask) for the past month or so and so to say, has been behaving the way that it has given me some hope and my head has filled with thoughts saying "what if? What if she would want me back?"

It's naïve, it's stupid, it hurts me - I know - but I can't get over with living in the dream. There was a guy running after her when I first met her but I didn't give up even though I felt just as miserable three or four years ago than I feel now - but I got her and as I'm so obsessed with her, I want that girl to be mine once again. She has built an armor for herself so when it comes to her showing or telling how she feels, it's almost impossible. I rarely know what's going on inside her head, but I do know that I can't stop smiling when she spends even a short moment with me and I do hope that she feels good being with me. Today she was so happy - and cute when she asked "what?" with a smile on her face when I couldn't get my eyes off of her.

If I only would know what does she want and if I only could be sure that the other dude is history... Some day soon I hope.

hi guys, sorry ive been pretty much concentrated in myself for couple weeks back.

I came to conclusion that its time to end my relationship after a year of struggle. Not much to say about it more than if I've done it one year ago I would have been a mess. Now it kinda feels natural. I did my best and giving more than that would have meant that I loose respect of myself for a love of someone else. Its not what I want from my life. First hand I gotta take care of myself and love myself, secondly I can love others.

I think you Henri and Fossa need to remind yourself of that, I totally understand the feeling you have, but if it ends reason what ever it could be at that moment its not prolly not gonna work in the long run either, eventually it would lead to a miserable relationship.

You both are really good guys, emotional and deep with a kindness that girls should fight for and I am sure that eventually you will find the girls of your dreams, in words they will give you the appreciation which you deserve.
Meanwhile don't doubt yourselfs too much and take care and love yourself even if it might sound like a cliche, it isn't.

Henri: You need a girl that is more opened up in her feelings outside, you would feel much more secure. Now you are looking at that mystical beautiful woman and by her being like that you will never know where you have her which will make you feel insecure.
I think you should end your friendship with her. For you its hope, for her it is just a friendship. Even if it could evolve she done too much damage to you, by doing that once she is not worth it. And if it evolved it would be for her own good, not for your good. Did she pay attention to you last time before she decided to end it?

Ps. I might have some words to say when I am deep in shit with this situation

Another song playing in my head when reading al this:

The Human League - Louise