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Broken heart is the toughest shit ever.
I mean, a childhood friend of mine died a drug-related death a couple of years ago.

Seriously broken heart is worse than that. I don't know why but it is.

I can't imagine how it feels to break up from a long-time marriage but i can relate to how you feel huxflux.

Thanks to you again Ray. It was the best time of my life. Never been happier in my hole life. And i hope i can cherish it someday and feel good about it.
It just sucks that a big part of that bliss and happiness was connected to all those expectations of the future and the feel that this is the one i'm going to settle with.

It feels so unbelieveably bad to try to change that track back to being that single and starting that female-hunting again.
There are a lot of fucking spiky bushes between the single-road and the relationship-road.

@ fossa & huxflux sympathies to both of you
broken heart is one of the the worst things..

indeed!

and it doesnt help to know others have to go through worse things, i know.

but
a friend of mine comes from japan. her family and most of her friends live on tokio. they are ok, which is good. but shes quite worried about some friends living in the north since she hasnt heard from them yet. what a nightmare! and the situation in fukushima and probably at other reactors is quite frightening, too!

I think I finally figured out whats wrong with me after more than a week of dragging around...Went to 3 (Chinese!) hospitals (blood tests, urine, blah, blah - 'you are fine!')...And now I was told some people in my family have this thyroid thing...I guess its Hypothyroidism...More tests n bullshit to do. Symptoms seem to match this, so lets see..So weird this happening now as everyone here is buying all the salt from every store...because of radiation scares...LOL, I'll live I guess

sounds awful schmoltz. lukashenko is a nazi dictator. my fiancee knows the daughter of one of the opposition leaders who is in jail now. he will probably die there (he is sick) and she will never see her father again.

... you have so much shit to do that requires thinking a lot, you need some rest to be able to think about stuff clearly, you don't really have time for the rest but still you try, and even when you try to get some rest you just can't fall asleep. Aargh.

I know it's nothing compared to a natural disaster or the collapse of economy, but still... The collapse of my mental health seems to be on its way.

well we are trying again, i think this is what 3-4:th time in a year. Last time i were sure it was final, but it seems its harder to break up after we have decided to move on. We have had problems quite some time and I've only recently forced her to talk about them and be honest but she got a problem with doing those things which makes us slip apart.

I've finally managed to make her to talk about the core problem in our 8 year relationship which we both have been aware of but its been hidden behind the curtains.
I can't accept those problems and she will need to make an effort if this gonna work and I am ready to invest time in therapy with her but I am also very aware that we might not be able to solve them.

In a strange way I am ready for both. I am ready to nurture our love but I am also ready for a longer period of sorrow and a light in the end of that tunnel. Both are better than a dysfunctional relationship.

Fossa: I am so sorry to hear about your break up. I can relate to the feeling of a bubble until it bursts. Its devastating when it suddenly arrises from no where. From my personal perspective I don't think it has made me a better man to be more aware since it creates suspiciousness which shouldn't be needed in something most of us wish for, a trusty relationship.

Sometimes its of course hard for the other person to reveal their inner feelings and it takes a great deal of time to understand the other person in deep which makes me assume that she were aware of your feelings and your commitment but she didn't feel ready. Her personal problems combined with hurting someone in the long run made her make a fast decision.

I might be projecting here, but I am just trying to say that it might have saved you a great deal of trouble even if it feels hard now.

Hugs to you and Maiovvi. Take care of yourselves.

i know it's not exactly a huge problem, but, i just found out we're not getting a holiday for the royal wedding!

i mean, i couldn't give a shit about it, but EVERYONE else who i know will be on holiday that day, and it sucks so much that our work wouldn't give us it off. it's just not essential whatsoever that we would need to come to work that day.

bunch of bastards!

edit - erm, i just noticed that the 'complain' thread had been bumped, i should have really posted this in there - sorry!

terrible news. explosion in Minsk subway 11 killed, 120 injured.

I don't want to be cynical and speculate if this is an inside job or not etc, but you only have to put two and two together to see this happened at the worst times for the current government. in any case this is unprecedented act of terror, and I'm afraid it will have unprecedented consequences..

when the anti-eu, anti-immigration, anti-civilization rednecks get a massive election victory in your country. the past 60 years have been hard work getting this backward country into europe, now these guys want to go back to the 50's.

i wish it was a one term protest, but sadly i feel they are here to stay.. there will always be the angry juntti -type in finland.

yeah it's unbelievable that the other parties want to co-operate with these fascists. in addition to their backward agenda, they don't know a goddamn thing about governance or even basic economics. it will be interesting to see how the government is formed.