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When reality wants you to log in

IFM seems out of the air here, no stream or home. anybody knows more about?

that sucks indeed 

I have been looking for another job for a couple of months now so I've had a lot of job interviews, exams and stuff, I was with the last 2 or 3 candidates EVERY time but in the end I never get it, the one from the last two weeks for which I had to do very difficult exams was the same again, it was between me and some clown in the last round and he got the job. I really wanted that job so I'm pretty pissed off and disappointed but what can I do other than just continue. I'm sick of my current job, I hate it and it just doesn't pay enough. My friends keep telling me that I have to chill because I musn't forget from where I come: I had a very heavy rehab for the knees (I could barely walk one year ago), I had to go to the hospital every day to train for many hours etc so then they say, you will close the cocksuckers in the end but I'm very impatient and don't care for some interim solution, it's all or nothing and I fucking hate losing time.

yep, it was meant to do that temporarely because I could combine it with my rehab but that's over now, I go the gym 4 times a week whenever I want to go (it's open till 10 P.M.)so now that I can do everything I want again I want to do the work I studied for, which is finance, economics and taxes. The problem with the applications is that there are always a shit load of candidates, not that it matters so much because obviously I have been better than the others when I always end up in the final round but I don't buy anything with ending as the number 2, only winning counts  So it doesn't affect my self esteem because I know that I'm capable but it's very frustrating after a while.

when you invite everybody for bbq and then it starts raining aaaargh

vandaag niet 1 maar 2 gaten in mijn sokken, damn..

It seems that it's not so uncommon here. I also have it. Welcome to the club man

Well, no. My case is not the most severe, but it's persistent. You need to adjust your habits and just learn to live with it. It made affected my quality of living, that's for sure. I hope you're not in much trouble. And of course if you need any advice...

No beer (and no alcohol whatsoever), no sweets and anything that might make you bloat, no raw veggies with cellulose, nothing hot and too spicy, the list goes on... But I found myself liking the "healthier" food, and I can smoke pot (and it helps) so that's some kind of a substitution for alcohol. You just need to find out what suits you trough trial and error, no one can tell you that. And try to eliminate all the stress you can from your life, the brain and the guts are very connected and the stress is a possible trigger for IBDs in most cases.

Sure you can.
And anyways, I'm just stating my situation, things seem to be very different from case to case. You might just find out that, besides taking meds, you can eat and drink whatever you want (like many doctors suggested to me). And it's not the end of the world if you indulge yourself in some "forbidden" stuff from time to time, just not all the time.

man that stuff looks serious, i googled 'Ulcerative colitis' and got some nasty images back.
best of luck lads